Online Dating- The Most Powerful Weapon For Introverts

Before we go over to the main topic of this article which is Online Dating-The Most Powerful Weapon For Introverts, let’s first talk about what introverts are. An introvert is a shy or reserved type of person who prefers to be by themselves with their own thoughts and/or be with a very small group of people who they’re comfortable with.

As an introvert myself, I’m always stuck in a corner of the room with a smart phone in hand wishing I was at home reading a book and holding a mug of coffee whenever I’m in a social gathering. Not that I despise being surrounded by people, I prefer being alone or hang out with a close friend when doing my favorite hobbies.

But just because I’m an introvert, it doesn’t mean I don’t like to have friends. I do, but I just only have a handful of them. Introverts tend to only have a few friends since most of them would prefer a closer friendship and be in a deep discussion with someone rather than having a light chitchat with people that you barely know and helps best to find friends.

Based on my personal experience, the worst nightmares an introvert could have is to attend a socializing event, whether it’s a birthday party or simply a group gathering where you don’t know anyone at all except the person who invited you or whom you came with. If you’re like me who’s an introverted and shy or the other type who is not and want to make friends or meet someone special, then online dating is the best way to go!

Now that’s over and done with, let’s go over to the main interesting part.

 Internet dating sure does have a considerable amount of dos and don’ts, benefits and disadvantages. But when it comes to introverts who want to socialize, then online dating is surely on one of the top platforms to go to.

But how can an introvert like you and me start with online dating? What would be the best thing to do when you’re going to connect with singles online? Well, here are some practical and favorable tips on what an introvert should do:

Choose the best suitable dating site for you

Technology is evolving day by day and online dating sites as well. Every year, dating sites are getting more sophisticated and getting more specified when it comes to dating categories. Before jumping into this online dating world first thing to keep in mind is pick a dating site that best suits your goals. While picking a dating site be super sure which type of relationship that you’re looking for, whether it’s a serious relationship, friendship, or just hookups.

Also, be aware that there are also dating sites that caters for specific group of people. Like for gamers, farmers, single parents, or by race and religion. This can be a crucial part in picking the right one for you.

If you happen to choose a adult dating site, let’s say it’s a My BDSM Hookups. Be sure to research some adult dating tips that would benefit you tremendously if you happen to meet someone from those dating sites.

You also have to consider if the site is trustworthy enough for you to give out your personal information.  You must have to do a background check on the site. Honest website reviews are always available on the internet, they may do great help. It’s better to be safe than end up with a broken heart caused by scammers and looters.

Have attractive dating profile

There’s nothing better than having a kick ass dating profile. Always have a photo of yourself, preferably doing something cool like sports or hanging out with your pet dog. That alone could attract quite a number of prospective matches.

Another is profile bio. Never leave your profile bio blank, NEVER. We know being mysterious is attractive, but don’t go overboard on it. Especially if you’re using online dating sites where people don’t know a single thing about you and will never know a single thing about you since your profile bio is as blank as a sheet of toilet paper.

For introverts like you and me, online dating is an awesome way to show their love of interacting through writing. That way, you can express yourself better compared to regular dating where you stress yourself out on what you’re going to say and ending up telling wrong things instead.

One thing to remember though is that it’s cool to be detailed on your profile, but be careful not to share too much information on it. It’s never a good idea to reveal your real name, home or office address, phone number, and email address on your profile. Even though the dating platform that you registered on doesn’t have a single scammer (which I doubt), it’s still important not to share those personal information on your profile bio which makes you vulnerable to scammers and identity thieves.

Be careful on your first message

As I’ve mentioned on #2, Introverts like us love to interact with writing. But the downside is, we have a greater chance at sending long messages to someone who might not have a mutual feeling towards us.

It’s best to go with a simple message with 2-3 sentences that states at what made you send them a message. Having a witty message is also a good idea (according to must)), who wouldn’t want to reply from a humorous message that made them smile, right?

Just keep your messages simple and straight to the point. Always remember, don’t go overboard. If you don’t receive any response, then that’s okay. There’s plenty of fish in this dating ocean.

That’s the beauty of online dating platform. If you get rejected, you can look for another match instantly or you can connect with multiple singles at the same time and pick the one who you’re most compatible with.

Patience is a virtue, my dear friend

A thing about online dating is that it can really put your patience to the test (tough one). There will be a lot of browsing, rejections, messages, and a lot more. If you’re lucky, you can meet your ideal partner in first couple of months. But for most who are not so lucky may have to face few rejections first, before meeting the perfect one.

My top advice for you on this issue is to just never give up. Never give up searching for the perfect mate. Never lose hope. Never be afraid from being rejected. There’s a reason behind every single rejection. Me too had to wait for at least seven months before getting laid( you know, I’m a type of person who’s more interested in adding more and more bdsm contacts on a dating list ).

Plan s best first date

If you’ve already met someone on the dating site, of course it’s a no brainer that you’re not going to keep in touch on the platform forever. You’re going to have an in person meeting down the road.

When both of you think it’s time to finally have an in-person meeting, many reactions a person could go through. Either they became excited, nervous, or just even cool about it, it’s important to plan on what both of you would like and would enjoy.

If you both would much rather prefer to sit in a cafe and talk, then that’s totally cool. Or if both of you are in to doing something with a little more action like doing sports, adventures or attending events, then even better. It’s more about finding out what activities that you both can mutually agree on and do together.

It doesn’t matter what activity it is, as long as you both enjoy it and get to know each other better.

Louise Author